Thriving Through Divorce

Today, I am reflecting on what the journey of divorce has been and currently is in the lives of many women.  There was a time when women suffered silently and could have no voice in their destiny. Today, women can marry and divorce sometimes because they initiate this path and other times because it is initiated for them by circumstances, traumas, illness, whatever the root cause an acute transition under pressure rapidly unfolds for many women.

Because women are generally the caregivers, there often is little support for this chapter of their lives. Frequently, women under such pressure rarely stop to ask for help as they feel an imperative to keep going. Often, women are stretching themselves taking care of family whether it includes children or not. A divorce therefore can mean an additional stretch with many unknowns as solutions are sought while the relationship dissolves.

This can be a messy and intensive time of sorting out responsibilities of custody, monetary shifts, changes in housing, loss of friends gained throughout the marriage, and all of this while trying to keep your existing life and responsibilities on track.

This series has been designed to give women permission to feel as well as understand their own unique process while providing new information, helpful tips, and implementable tools to feel their best throughout the divorce process. Instead of denying what you are feeling you will learn to have the freedom to look at what you are experiencing and be able to use the tools taught at The Tao Report to process your life as it is unfolding in present time.

In this series of Thriving Through Divorce we are examining how we are made of up of several energy systems such as the: physical, mental, and emotional energies as well as ways to keep these energies synchronized. Through this series, you will learn and become empowered to process your events as they present themselves rather than to deny, ignore, or push through them thus accumulating negative effects that might resurface or cause illness once things settle down.

It is natural to feel tired as these ingrained energy patterns dissolve and new patterns are not yet in place. Remember, your nervous system and brain have etched patterns that will re-write over time. Only if your physical mental and emotional states are nourished and harmonized will you have the vitality to process and shift smoothly through your divorce.

Future blogs and events will guide you into deeper ways to achieve your highest vitality so you can truly be your best self every day.

The best to you,

The Tao Report

Dr. Susan